Aloha, I’m Tim Sullivan. And I’m happily married to my wife of 25 years, Kurumi.
Got two grown sons, one’s in college the other just entered the real world. Number-one-son Ry lives in the Big Mikan where he just graduated from Teikyo University–thanks to an American football scholarship that dropped from heaven. For an interesting take on current trends in Japan check out Ry’s blog. Ry is a bilingual/bi-cultural hapa kid with his finger on the pulse of Tokyo. His new gig is bridging hip-hop, gospel and a variety of genres with the Japanese market. Not a bad gig for a 23-year old.
Number-two son Grady attends University of Hawaii Hilo and lives at home. But we don’t see him much, he’s a busy guy! Grady is a hip-hop dancer in Hilo’s premier dance crew Cataclysm. You can catch the crew at Center Stage teaching hip-hop dance and krumping on Saturday mornings. On Sundays it’s not unusual to see them on Hilo’s rustic Bay Front entertaining the crowds. (For a peek at Grady’s trailer click here.)
What’s my gig? I’m a cross-cultural business consultant. It’s not a profession easy to describe. Kurumi likens it to marriage counseling because a good part of my job entails persuading frustrated Japanese and American coworkers to “kiss and make up”, so to speak. It never fails to surprise participants when the gig ends in a borderline love-fest. Yeah it’s kind of creepy, but in a good way. Can’t think of a more rewarding way to make a living.
What qualifies me to do this stuff? It helps to have a knack for it. Lots of “hard-knocks” experience to back my knack, including over 30 years dealing with Japan; 20 working with Japanese-owned subsidiaries in the U.S.; and 10 living, studying and working in Japan.
I speak, read and write Japanese–just don’t ask me to write it without a word processor.
Got a Liberal Arts degree, the kind my uncle said would never do me any good. Glad I didn’t listen to him. Graduated from International Christian University in Tokyo with a degree in Communications specializing in cross-cultural Studies.
Senior thesis: Black Humor in Koten Rakugo (=Japanese Classical Comic Storytelling). Currently working on a rakugo project with the goal of bridging the humor gap by, hopefully, making a humorous Japanese story work in English. Stay tuned.
As of this writing–and for the foreseeable future–I’m living the dream in Pahoa Hawaii, nestled in the lush green jungles of Puna. Life is good.
When I’m not working I’m reading, writing, listening to music, playing guitar, watching my boys in Cataclysm dance, helping out at the local charter school and, when time permits, hanging with family and friends at Richardson’s Beach in beautiful Hilo. Never imagined that I’d get along so well with my kids but they keep us smiling.
There you go, my profile in a somewhat over-sized nutshell.
For the epic version of my life check out Living the Dream in Hawaii.
Otherwise get back to the front page and start reading!
Don’t be shy about making comments.
With warm aloha,
Tim

29 responses so far ↓
Andy // December 15, 2008 at 7:20 am |
Hi Tim,
Your blog is great.
Thanks for your insight.
Andy
punafish // December 15, 2008 at 11:30 am |
Thank you, I appreciate the feedback. Just curious, how did you find my blog? Are you interested in Japan?
I went to your blog, but unfortunately didn’t understand. Wish I could speak…French?
Hope you’ll drop in a gain to visit.
Thanks again. Aloha!
Andy // December 16, 2008 at 11:20 am |
Hi Tim,
I found your blog through a comment you left on Evolving Excellence.
I’m interested in Japan as I am a Chinese French myself and also a keen admirer of the Japanese way of doing things (a lot of things but not everything).
You are on my favorite now : )
As we say in french “Il n’est jamais trop tard pour apprendre”
Aloha,
Andy
PS: Aloha means Hi or Bye?
coachwithheart // December 31, 2008 at 3:11 am |
Well done! I like what I see – so I shall attempt to see more.
Dan
punafish // December 31, 2008 at 5:09 am |
Hope you’ll keep coming back, Dan. I’ll try my best to keep it interesting and real. I’d be honored if you’d pass on my URL to anyone who might be interested in my ramblings. Of course, I’m happy to reciprocate.
I’ll be sure to check into your blog for daily doses inspiration
Tim
ansella // January 6, 2009 at 3:18 am |
Just stopping by and feels good to find a nice reading in here. Keep on writing ^^
punafish // January 6, 2009 at 3:22 am |
Thanks Ansella. Hope you’ll stop by again. I’ll check out your blog as well.
Tim
ansella // March 11, 2009 at 2:20 am |
Okay, this time I’m goin to grab a link so I want loss it again ya ^^ just like what I did to Ry’s blog, your son is talented in writing and you did a good job
punafish // March 11, 2009 at 3:07 am |
Thanks Ansella. I’ll pass along your kind words to Ry
Tim
Damon Tucker // March 16, 2009 at 10:03 am |
Any way that you can condense this to be about half the size and content for the FBI Profile pages?
Damon Tucker // April 19, 2009 at 9:50 am |
Came across the following blog you might be interested in:
http://faroutliers.wordpress.com/category/japan/
thehawaiianlion // June 7, 2009 at 1:01 pm |
Hey Tim,
I think that referral came from me checking and clicking a link to your post on the “related posts” section off one of my posts. Your post on “Can American Executives Manage Without Their Corporate Jets?” was very interesting and gave me and a buddy (he’s studying Business in Japan) a good topic of conversation.
Unfortunately, I don’t know your buddy Karlton. I am 26 year old guy, born and raised in Kohala, who went to the mainland for University and is now in Japan – almost 5 years – learning day by day. I have some cousins in Pahoa, but I haven’t been in ages. Is Da Store still there? That name cracked me up.
“Which store?” “Da store!”
I think I will stop by the site. I learned a lot from that post, and am interested in learning more about Japanese and American cultural differences.
Thanks for taking the time to post and checking out my site.
Tyson
punafish // June 10, 2009 at 1:17 am |
Hey Tyson,
thanks for checking in. It’s funny you mentioned Da Store–it’s about a stone’s throw away from my house, no kidding. (I’m just 3 streets makai of Da Store.) Pahoa is such a small town that if we tried hard enough, no doubt we’d eventually find a mutual acquaintance or distant relative. In the meantime…we’ve got the Japan connection so you’re already a kindred spirit.
Are you a professional translator or a student?
Look us up the next time you’re on island…
Tim
Pachipro // August 25, 2009 at 4:21 am |
Nice blog Tim and fantastic insights as usual. Glad to see our time in Japan wasn’t wasted even though we might have been!
I’ll be checking back often to catch up.
Cynthia // August 29, 2009 at 3:45 pm |
Peeking at your blog via Damon’s mention of you on Twitter. Look forward to reading more.
punafish // August 29, 2009 at 3:53 pm |
Aloha and thanks for checking in, Cynthia. Making a strong case for twitter, eh?
Sue // August 30, 2009 at 5:00 pm |
Hi Tim,
I came across your site through checking out blogs on Japan business and culture. I, too, am an interculturalist, lived in Japan a while ago with my family for six blissful years, and happen to adore Hawaii as well (great place to get a solid ‘Japan fix’ while still technically in the U.S.A.). I just started blogging myself, and can’t wait to dive in to your posts, beginning with those on customer service.
Mata, ne!
punafish // August 31, 2009 at 7:15 am |
Hi Sue,
Thanks for checking in, always good to hear from a kindred spirit.
Just a year ago I wasn’t sure about all this blogging stuff. But now I’m hooked. Nothing beats having the freedom to write about whatever strikes one’s fancy–and get timely feedback on it to boot! (Naturally a straight business blog will have its restrictions…the Intercultural Twilight Zone gives me a little more wiggle room…)
Anyway, hope you can make sense out of my cross-cultural ramblings. And don’t be shy about sharing your wisdom and experiences.
Yes indeed Hawaii offers the best of both worlds. We are blessed to be here.
Mahalo for checking in!
Tim
marion // September 1, 2009 at 4:30 am |
Shalom/Hello
My name is Marion Burgheimer and I am an intercultural trainer. I live in Israel. I read several posts and learned and enjoyed. Is there a possibility to subscribe to your blog?
Thank you in advance
Marion Burgheimer
punafish // September 2, 2009 at 8:02 am |
Thanks so much for checking in Marion. I appreciate your kind words.
By the way, how’s the intercultural training business in Israel? Several years ago a friend of mine spent some time there and still raves about the place even today. So I’m curious!
Anyone wanna coach me on how to get a “add-to-any” subscribe button at the top of my site?
marion // September 3, 2009 at 12:49 am |
Thank you for your answer. I answer your question soon.
With regards to “add to any” I used in my blog a feature from feedburner
feedbirner.com
WordPress has in his “help” section an explanation about it, and it works very well.
Good Luck
Sue // September 9, 2009 at 5:19 pm |
Aloha Tim! I’ve been enjoying your posts since I started reading them a few weeks ago, and in honor of all the great ideas on these pages, I posted a piece on the recent Japan election and its relation to Japanese culture. Would love to share it but will wait for your OK before posting a link.
Mahalo arigatoo (ha! too much writing today!)
marion // September 9, 2009 at 8:39 pm |
You asked me several weeks ago “how’s the intercultural training business in Israel?”
Well, it is very interesting. First Israel in itself is an intercultural place. Many people from different places around the world.
2nd, Israeli companies export and import a lot. In addition many international companies have offices in Israel, so the contact between employees and managers from Israel and people from abroad exists, and demands attention and development.
I like my job and find it fascinating.
You are more then welcome to Israel.
punafish // September 10, 2009 at 11:17 am |
Sue, thanks again for checking in. Politics normally doesn’t interest me but what just happened in Japan is an historic event that begs for analysis. I’d love you to shed some light on the cultural underpinnings. So lay your link on us! Hey, we “interculturalists” are a minority; we gotta stick together, right?
Is it already posted on your blog?
Sue // September 10, 2009 at 5:15 pm |
Thanks, Tim; it’s freshly posted and up there for the looking: http://www.globalcoachingandconsulting.com/Banter-Without-Borders-Blog/ . I’m the same way, if it’s cultural, count me in. If it’s politics…..’not so much’! This time round, though, there were some cultural connections I thought might be interesting to put out there. On another note, I read your latest comment on alcohol in Japan while my husband was out with his J-clients tonight in the thick of it. I forwarded it to him then and there and only hope he read it in time. LOL. I always love the Japanese use of the term ‘allergic,’ as it turns up in all kinds of situations. I especially love it when used with people in the workplace; it’s such a perfect way to express extreme dislike for someone without actually saying it.
punafish // September 10, 2009 at 11:24 am |
Thanks for checking back in Marion, and thanks for welcoming me to your country. Sure hope I get the chance to go someday! And also hope you can find your way to Hawaii as well!
Also, glad to hear you’re busy. Wasn’t sure how the economic downturn was affecting your part of the world.
As an aside, have you ever heard of a book called “The Anatomy of Peace”. I mention it for two reasons: one, it’s just great book that inspired reflection on my part about our shared humanity and how we create conflict and also ways to solve it. It covers some very profound leadership principles that have helped me tremendously. (Wish I read it 25 years ago; I’d have been a better husband and father…but better late than never.) The other reason I mention the book is that it goes into great detail about the history of the Middle East, a real eye-opener for me. I’m thinking about doing a post on this book in the future.
Thanks again for checking in, and let me know when you’re coming to Hawaii
Aloha nui!
Tim
marion // September 11, 2009 at 4:41 am |
I would love to come to Hawaii.
When this happens I will let you know.
The world is beautiful & it’s upon us to discover it.
It will be interesting to read a post about the book , “The Anatomy of Peace”.
In a week time it is Rosh Hashana (Jewish new year holiday) so I am wishing you and other people who read this blog Shana Tova= Good Year.
Cynthia // September 28, 2009 at 10:38 am |
Hi Tim,
RT’d your article on Twitter. Used bit.ly to shorten the link so that others can easily RT as well. Hope it sends some readers your way.
Thanks for the insights,
Cynthia
Twitter: @Cynthia_Hoskins
punafish // September 28, 2009 at 10:50 am |
Cynthia, this twitter stuff is all Greek to me–thanks for setting me straight and for not whacking me with a stick!