About Me

Aloha, I’m Tim Sullivan. And I’m happily married to my wife of 28 years, Kurumi.

Got two grown sons, one’s in college the other just entered the real world. Number-one-son Ry resides in Tokyo where he just lived through the biggest earthquake to hit Japan in recorded history. He has a great gig with a top-shelf PR/Marketing company called Edelman. For an insider’s take on current trends in Japan check out Ry’s blog.

Number-two son Grady attends University of Hawaii Hilo and lives at home. But we don’t see him much–he’s a busy guy! Grady is a b-boy in Hilo’s premier dance crew Shell Shock. Almost any day of the week you can catch the crew at Center Stage either dancing or teaching dance. For Grady’s trailer click here.

What’s My Gig?

I’m a cross-cultural business consultant. It’s not a profession easy to describe. My wife likens it to marriage counseling because often my job entails helping frustrated Japanese and American coworkers “kiss and make up”, so to speak. Every workshop we’ve ever done ends in a borderline love-fest. It’s kind of creepy but in a good way. Can’t think of a more rewarding way to make a living.

That’s one part of my gig. The other part is helping Western organizations connect with Japan. My work in Hawaii tends to be customer-service consulting and workshops for clients serving the Japanese visitor market. We start with “deep culture” by educating clients on Japanese history, values, cultural traditions, geography, etc., and through this cultural lens, how they view–rightly or wrongly or stereotypically–folks from the West. From this foundation we challenge participants to come up with their own ideas on ways to improve. (See video clip below for a glimpse at me in action.)

The beauty of this approach is that once folks get the big picture, most figure out on their own that they need to raise their game. And if you allow the improvement suggestions to be their ideas, then they’ll make sure those ideas become reality. It’s not rocket science–try it at your company, you’ll like it.

What qualifies me to do this?

It helps to have a knack for it. Lots of hard-knocks experience to back my knack, including 34 years dealing with Japan; 24 of that working with Japanese-owned subsidiaries in the U.S.; the other 10 living, studying and working in Japan.

If you want to put my name to a face and voice, here’s a short clip of me in action, taken at a seminar last year at Halekulani for my client Hawaiian Airlines:

I speak, read and write Japanese–just don’t ask me to write it without a word processor.

My educational background includes a Liberal Arts degree from International Christian University in Tokyo in Communications, specializing in Cross-Cultural studies. That, and 27 years’ experience working elbow to elbow with (and between) Japanese and Westerners.

We work only with top-shelf organizations committed to quality and excellence. Clients include Hawaiian Airlines, Halekulani, Hilton Grand Vacations Hawaii, Nordstrom, Christian Dior, Royal Hawaiian, Sheraton, Gemini, Pacific Air Force Command, and Hawaii Tourism Authority to name a few.

As of this writing–and for the foreseeable future–I’m living the dream in Pahoa Hawaii, nestled in the lush green jungles of Puna. When I’m not working, I’m reading, writing, picking at my guitar or just putzin’ around my taro patch. And on a sunny, lazy Hawaii morning you might catch us swimming laps at Ahalanui, a beautiful hot-pond cove on the sleepy shores of Kapoho. Life is good.

Thanks for reading this far. And don’t be shy about making comments.

aloha nui from Pahoa,

Tim

31 Responses to About Me

  1. Hi Tim,

    Your blog is great.

    Thanks for your insight.

    Andy

  2. Thank you, I appreciate the feedback. Just curious, how did you find my blog? Are you interested in Japan?

    I went to your blog, but unfortunately didn’t understand. Wish I could speak…French?

    Hope you’ll drop in a gain to visit.

    Thanks again. Aloha!

  3. Hi Tim,

    I found your blog through a comment you left on Evolving Excellence.

    I’m interested in Japan as I am a Chinese French myself and also a keen admirer of the Japanese way of doing things (a lot of things but not everything).

    You are on my favorite now : )

    As we say in french “Il n’est jamais trop tard pour apprendre”

    Aloha,
    Andy

    PS: Aloha means Hi or Bye?

  4. Well done! I like what I see – so I shall attempt to see more.

    Dan

  5. Hope you’ll keep coming back, Dan. I’ll try my best to keep it interesting and real. I’d be honored if you’d pass on my URL to anyone who might be interested in my ramblings. Of course, I’m happy to reciprocate.

    I’ll be sure to check into your blog for daily doses inspiration :-)

    Tim

  6. Just stopping by and feels good to find a nice reading in here. Keep on writing ^^

  7. Thanks Ansella. Hope you’ll stop by again. I’ll check out your blog as well.
    Tim

  8. Okay, this time I’m goin to grab a link so I want loss it again ya ^^ just like what I did to Ry’s blog, your son is talented in writing and you did a good job

  9. Thanks Ansella. I’ll pass along your kind words to Ry :-)

    Tim

  10. Any way that you can condense this to be about half the size and content for the FBI Profile pages?

  11. Came across the following blog you might be interested in:

    http://faroutliers.wordpress.com/category/japan/

  12. Hey Tim,

    I think that referral came from me checking and clicking a link to your post on the “related posts” section off one of my posts. Your post on “Can American Executives Manage Without Their Corporate Jets?” was very interesting and gave me and a buddy (he’s studying Business in Japan) a good topic of conversation.

    Unfortunately, I don’t know your buddy Karlton. I am 26 year old guy, born and raised in Kohala, who went to the mainland for University and is now in Japan – almost 5 years – learning day by day. I have some cousins in Pahoa, but I haven’t been in ages. Is Da Store still there? That name cracked me up.

    “Which store?” “Da store!”

    I think I will stop by the site. I learned a lot from that post, and am interested in learning more about Japanese and American cultural differences.

    Thanks for taking the time to post and checking out my site.

    Tyson

  13. Hey Tyson,

    thanks for checking in. It’s funny you mentioned Da Store–it’s about a stone’s throw away from my house, no kidding. (I’m just 3 streets makai of Da Store.) Pahoa is such a small town that if we tried hard enough, no doubt we’d eventually find a mutual acquaintance or distant relative. In the meantime…we’ve got the Japan connection so you’re already a kindred spirit.

    Are you a professional translator or a student?

    Look us up the next time you’re on island…

    Tim

  14. Nice blog Tim and fantastic insights as usual. Glad to see our time in Japan wasn’t wasted even though we might have been! ;-) I’ll be checking back often to catch up.

  15. Peeking at your blog via Damon’s mention of you on Twitter. Look forward to reading more.

  16. Aloha and thanks for checking in, Cynthia. Making a strong case for twitter, eh? :-)

  17. Hi Tim,

    I came across your site through checking out blogs on Japan business and culture. I, too, am an interculturalist, lived in Japan a while ago with my family for six blissful years, and happen to adore Hawaii as well (great place to get a solid ‘Japan fix’ while still technically in the U.S.A.). I just started blogging myself, and can’t wait to dive in to your posts, beginning with those on customer service.

    Mata, ne!

  18. Hi Sue,

    Thanks for checking in, always good to hear from a kindred spirit.

    Just a year ago I wasn’t sure about all this blogging stuff. But now I’m hooked. Nothing beats having the freedom to write about whatever strikes one’s fancy–and get timely feedback on it to boot! (Naturally a straight business blog will have its restrictions…the Intercultural Twilight Zone gives me a little more wiggle room…)

    Anyway, hope you can make sense out of my cross-cultural ramblings. And don’t be shy about sharing your wisdom and experiences.

    Yes indeed Hawaii offers the best of both worlds. We are blessed to be here.

    Mahalo for checking in!

    Tim

  19. Shalom/Hello
    My name is Marion Burgheimer and I am an intercultural trainer. I live in Israel. I read several posts and learned and enjoyed. Is there a possibility to subscribe to your blog?
    Thank you in advance
    Marion Burgheimer

  20. Thanks so much for checking in Marion. I appreciate your kind words.

    By the way, how’s the intercultural training business in Israel? Several years ago a friend of mine spent some time there and still raves about the place even today. So I’m curious! :-)

    Anyone wanna coach me on how to get a “add-to-any” subscribe button at the top of my site?

  21. Thank you for your answer. I answer your question soon.
    With regards to “add to any” I used in my blog a feature from feedburner

    feedbirner.com

    WordPress has in his “help” section an explanation about it, and it works very well.

    Good Luck

  22. Aloha Tim! I’ve been enjoying your posts since I started reading them a few weeks ago, and in honor of all the great ideas on these pages, I posted a piece on the recent Japan election and its relation to Japanese culture. Would love to share it but will wait for your OK before posting a link.

    Mahalo arigatoo (ha! too much writing today!)

  23. You asked me several weeks ago “how’s the intercultural training business in Israel?”

    Well, it is very interesting. First Israel in itself is an intercultural place. Many people from different places around the world.
    2nd, Israeli companies export and import a lot. In addition many international companies have offices in Israel, so the contact between employees and managers from Israel and people from abroad exists, and demands attention and development.
    I like my job and find it fascinating.
    You are more then welcome to Israel.

  24. Sue, thanks again for checking in. Politics normally doesn’t interest me but what just happened in Japan is an historic event that begs for analysis. I’d love you to shed some light on the cultural underpinnings. So lay your link on us! Hey, we “interculturalists” are a minority; we gotta stick together, right? :-)

    Is it already posted on your blog?

    • Thanks, Tim; it’s freshly posted and up there for the looking: http://www.globalcoachingandconsulting.com/Banter-Without-Borders-Blog/ . I’m the same way, if it’s cultural, count me in. If it’s politics…..’not so much’! This time round, though, there were some cultural connections I thought might be interesting to put out there. On another note, I read your latest comment on alcohol in Japan while my husband was out with his J-clients tonight in the thick of it. I forwarded it to him then and there and only hope he read it in time. LOL. I always love the Japanese use of the term ‘allergic,’ as it turns up in all kinds of situations. I especially love it when used with people in the workplace; it’s such a perfect way to express extreme dislike for someone without actually saying it.

  25. Thanks for checking back in Marion, and thanks for welcoming me to your country. Sure hope I get the chance to go someday! And also hope you can find your way to Hawaii as well!

    Also, glad to hear you’re busy. Wasn’t sure how the economic downturn was affecting your part of the world.

    As an aside, have you ever heard of a book called “The Anatomy of Peace”. I mention it for two reasons: one, it’s just great book that inspired reflection on my part about our shared humanity and how we create conflict and also ways to solve it. It covers some very profound leadership principles that have helped me tremendously. (Wish I read it 25 years ago; I’d have been a better husband and father…but better late than never.) The other reason I mention the book is that it goes into great detail about the history of the Middle East, a real eye-opener for me. I’m thinking about doing a post on this book in the future.

    Thanks again for checking in, and let me know when you’re coming to Hawaii ;-)

    Aloha nui!

    Tim

  26. I would love to come to Hawaii.
    When this happens I will let you know.
    The world is beautiful & it’s upon us to discover it.

    It will be interesting to read a post about the book , “The Anatomy of Peace”.

    In a week time it is Rosh Hashana (Jewish new year holiday) so I am wishing you and other people who read this blog Shana Tova= Good Year.

  27. Hi Tim,

    RT’d your article on Twitter. Used bit.ly to shorten the link so that others can easily RT as well. Hope it sends some readers your way.

    Thanks for the insights,

    Cynthia

    Twitter: @Cynthia_Hoskins

  28. tim, thanks for an awesome international training class with HA….

    • Kelly san, thank you so much for the kind words. Gotta say in all sincerity, I feed off the energy of the audience, so in this case it truly was a team effort! I love working with you and your wonderful company. You will be VERY successful in this new market. And I feel very honored that I’m now part of the “HA ohana” :-)

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